Who do you want to be when you meet the love of your life?

Your ex is getting married. You saw the engagement pics on Facebook. You’re internally beating yourself up for having such a petty emotional response.

"Even that asshole has someone … really?" "There must be something profoundly wrong with me that I’m still alone, while…"

It’s entirely human to have this internal conversation; but while you’re at it, ask yourself:

"Who do I want to be when I meet the love of my life?"

Prioritize becoming that person.

The better you know yourself, the more likely you and your potential mate can recognize one another.

It’s not about finding them; it’s about finding you.

Focus on a passion that has nothing to do with anyone else.

Alone or partnered (or something else) it’s a win in all potential scenarios.